Unlocking Your Inner Siren:

7 Must-Know Tips for Finding Your Dream Boudoir Photographer

Introduction:

As I move into my 10th year of photographing women, there are a lot of things that I have heard over and over again from clients as well as things I hear from fellow photographers. I hope that you will find the information helpful and encouraging!

With that said, here are 7 tips on finding the best boudoir photographer for you! 👊

1. Nerves...

 It’s ok to be nervous. In fact, I welcome it!  Nerves mean you are outside your comfort zone.  Guess where all the fun stuff happens in life?  That’s right – outside your comfort zone!! That’s where growth and self-discovery thrive. Embrace the nerves, I promise they won’t last long.  We aren’t judging (or even really looking) at your body.

I know that sounds crazy, but as boudoir photographers – that is not our job. Our job is to master posing, light, emotion, etc… So yes although we SEE you, we aren’t picking you apart. We are actually always aiming to capture the best of you and therefore, that is what we see.  On that note, you should know – Both Men and Women make great boudoir photographers!

Yes, there are some perverts out there, however, some of the best boudoir photographers I have seen are men.  Men have the ability to see women in a different way than women do.  It’s not that one way is wrong or right.  They’re just different.  When searching for a photographer, think about who will make you feel more comfortable.  Want to bring a friend to the shoot to help you relax?  Great!  But be sure you bring a friend who won’t be insulted when you throw her out of the room!  A true professional will never make you feel uncomfortable – so you might not need her as much as you think.

2. You Don't need to lose 5 - 10 more pounds

Here is a tip ladies - Wardrobe is key!!  With the proper wardrobe, you are giving your photographer the ability to pose you any way they would like.  By posing you properly, we will always make you look as good as you look in real life, if not better!  And do yourself a favor – Get yourself measured!!  Most women are wearing the wrong bra size.   The proper bra size makes you look firmer, trimmer and way hotter.  (Oh and PS… your period isn’t an excuse to cancel a shoot – a little bloat doesn’t really show on camera.)

The women I photograph aren’t supermodels, they’re just like you and I. With good wardrobe choices, professional hair and makeup and my expertise with light and posing your photos will be stunning.

3. No, we can't just photoshop that out

 Ok yes, there are SOME things we can photoshop out – like that little tattoo you got one drunk night when you were 18. Maybe that can easily go, but if it covers your whole back, maybe not. Talk to your boudoir photographer about their photoshop policies before you book them!

I really hope that you are enjoying these tips and maybe even considering doing a boudoir session yourself. I promise you’ll be so glad that you did.

4. A Boudoir Session is for you!

Most women book sessions as a gift for someone else.   The truth is, the experience is for you!  The photos are the souvenir.  Embrace the experience.  The feelings that come along with it.  Look back at the photos and remember how incredible you felt that day.  You deserve the gift too.

 While we’re on the subject.…

 I am going to take really gorgeous images of you.  They are YOURS and it SUCKS that I can’t share them.   I mean how can I build my business if I can’t share my work?  It’s not easy – trust me.  That said, I will still respect your privacy.   If you don’t sign a model release (some clients still do), I will not share your photos without your permission and I will not hold it against you.  Your happiness is the most important thing in the world to me.  That said, we love when you tell others how awesome we are.  Boudoir is built on referrals and trust.  If you love and trust us, please tell someone!

5. Size or age doesn't matter!!!

We don’t care if you are a size 2 or a size 32.   Twenty-five years old or eighty-five years old.  For me, I want all women to see and believe that they are beautiful.  That truly means ALL women.  Don’t put boundaries on yourself just because you “think” it’s not for you.   That is just your brain lying to you.

6. Be Prepared, this could be a life changer

 You think you are booking a photo shoot for fun or a gift.  And you are!   However, there is often the most incredible side effect of this experience.   Often women will realize their potential.  Their secret powers.  Their true worth.   They will get in touch with feelings they repressed and forgot about a long time ago.  These feelings open up their minds and worlds.   It gives them the power to LIVE.  To go after what they want in life.  To get out of bad relationships, to apply for new jobs, to travel, to fall in love…  The possibilities are endless.  This is not just a photo shoot.   It’s a life experience that offers you self-confidence, freedom, and a retraining of your brain that you can do something daring and good things come of it.

7. Finding the Perfect boudoir photographer for you!

1. Research and Check Portfolios: Browse through different photographers' portfolios to get a sense of their style and see if it aligns with your vision. Look for diversity in their work and make sure they showcase a variety of body types to ensure inclusivity.

2. Read Client Testimonials: Reviews and testimonials from previous clients can give you valuable insight into the photographer's professionalism, creativity, and ability to make clients feel comfortable and empowered during the shoot.

3. Consultation is Key: Schedule a consultation with potential photographers to discuss your vision, preferences, and expectations. This gives you an opportunity to gauge their personality, communication style, and how well they understand your desires for the shoot.

4. Professionalism and Experience: Choose a photographer who has experience in boudoir photography and possesses the technical skills required to capture intimate and sensual moments. Look for professionalism, punctuality, and attention to detail in their work.

5. Comfort and Trust: Boudoir shoots require a high level of comfort and trust between the photographer and client. Ensure that the photographer creates a safe and welcoming environment where you feel comfortable expressing yourself and being vulnerable.

6. Pricing and Packages: Review the photographer's pricing structure and packages to ensure they fit within your budget. Understand what's included in each package and consider any additional costs such as hair and makeup services or printed photo albums.

7. Personal Connection: Lastly, choose a photographer with whom you feel a personal connection. Feeling comfortable and at ease with your photographer will enhance your experience and allow for more authentic and stunning photos.

Remember, these tips will guide you towards finding the perfect boudoir photographer who can capture your unique beauty and empower you to embrace your inner siren! I hope that you’ve enjoyed this blog and that it got you excited to have your own boudoir session!  The entire experience from session planning and wardrobe styling, right through the product selection and design process is exciting and fun.  I love what I do and can’t wait to start planning a boudoir session for you. 

Your Journey Begins: Welcome to the Enchanting World of Boudoir Photography! 🌟✨

Get ready to embark on an extraordinary adventure where confidence, beauty, and self-expression collide. Our exclusive welcome guide is your VIP access pass to the ultimate boudoir experience, filled with insider tips, behind-the-scenes peeks, and jaw-dropping inspiration. Discover the secrets to finding your dream boudoir photographer and prepare to unleash your inner goddess like never before! 💃💋 

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Randalyn Weiss

Email: [email protected]

Phone : 618-617-6505

Studio Location:

1107 E Harris Ave.

Greenville IL, 62246

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Release Your Siren is a boudoir studio located in Greenville, Illinois less than an hour East of St. Louis, Missouri.  Randalyn loves helping women release their inner siren.  Feel confident in your beauty and unlock your sexy side.

I’ll set you up with a fun, glamours Girls Day!  Starting with being pampered with pro hair and makeup.  We will completely guide you through your entire photoshoot!  Then enjoy a relaxing one hour massage.  End the day selecting your images and feeling like a siren. Are you ready for your own Siren Experience?